The Personalist Project
Accessed on June 20, 2019 - 5:03:09
I’ve been reading Jacques Philippe again. This brings on the urge to just string together Jacques Philippe quotes and call it a post, because, after all, who could say it better, or what is there to add?
The book in question is called The Way of Trust and Love: a Retreat Guided by St. Therese of Lisieux (Scepter).
It’s perfect for people like me—and I suspect there are many—who suffer from the uneasy conviction that there must be more to the Little Flower than what we imagine, but who are too allergic to nineteenth-century religious prose to find out for sure.
This short paperback, as accessible as it is profound, will allow you to derive enormous amounts of spiritual nutrition from St. Therese without being troubled by any intolerance you may have built up against her genre. Think of it as gluten-free hagiography.
Much of the book centers around what she called “becoming little” (as in Christ’s command to become as little children). One mark of little children is their ability to get up, immediately and obliviously, after a fall and try again
(even if, like my own little children, they feel obliged to indulge in a certain quantity of pro forma weeping and wailing). Very little children are far more likely to be gleeful than brooding and introspective. Of course, they’re entirely self-centered--but they’re not morbidly self-absorbed. We grownup religious types, on the other hand—well, here’s the passage that especially struck me today:
There is a very subtle but common temptation in the spiritual life. With the excuse of wanting to be perfect, we seek to examine ourselves too much, to evaluate ourselves and measure our progress. The usual result is that a sort of discontent and permanent sadness slips into our lives, since we are never fully satisfied with ourselves.
This sadness is a pervasive feature of 21st-century life, at least in the “developed” world. On top of the burden of unremitting information about poverty and violence in places we hadn't realized existed, there's the epidemic of depression and anxiety.
We’re tempted to accept it as the “new normal,” rather than a sign that something’s deeply wrong, something that can be addressed.
Fr. Jacques continues:
Such an attitude causes us to center on ourselves when what we need to do is throw ourselves on God with unlimited trust. We’re more concerned about ourselves than about God….
Fr. Michel Esparza has elaborated at length on this insight, as we discussed here. And Fr. Jacques also wants us to be clear: we don’t have to choose between being morally upright, but depressed, or morally oblivious, but cheerful. Here’s how he puts it:
I don’t mean we shouldn’t examine our conscience: this is something we must do. But we should ensure that examination of conscience doesn’t degenerate into gazing gloomily at ourselves [emphasis mine]. The best way to enlighten our consciences and discern our real sins is to look at God, to take his Word as our mirror.
The idea of examining your conscience is interesting (especially to a personalist) for many reasons: it's not just about how to keep an accurate ledger of infractions: it intersects with questions like:
Even if we retreat from the external evils of the world (either out of fear and isolationism or, more wholesomely, into nourishing, neomonastic micro-communities) we inevitably run into the internal evils: the ones we can’t escape by changing location, because “wherever you go, there you are.”
So it's worth considering how to face those evils, how to attack them without attacking yourself in the process.
I've heard lots of good advice over the years: do a daily exam, not just right before confession. Aim to cultivate virtues, not just eradicate vices. Include "What did I do right today?" not only "How did I fail to measure up again today?" Don't ask, "Am I doing all I can?" but "Am I doing what I'm supposed to be doing right now?" Don't be shocked by your past or apprehensive about your future. God is bigger than you think.
But, sure enough, Jacques Philippe says it better. It's less a question of technique, more a question of stepping back and identifying what we're really after:
The desire for perfection is a good thing in itself, but it can be ambiguous. What do we really want? We would like to be experienced, irreproachable, never make any mistakes, never fall, possess unfailing good judgment and unimpeachable virtue. Which is to say we would like to have no more need of forgiveness or mercy, no more need of God and his help. If at bottom our dream of perfection is to be able to manage without God, we are no longer on the path of the Gospel.
And here's another gem:
Living in the present moment means accepting the poverty in us: not insisting on going over and over the past or taking control of the future,but contenting ourselves with today. But this is very liberating: God does not dole out grace by a sort of profit-and-loss accounting of my past based on my good and bad actions. He gives me grace according to my faith today.
I could string together more quotes. But, better yet, read the book, and tell me, what are your favorite parts?