Joined: Aug. 12, 2011
Restless, melancholic soul of Irish descent. Born and raised in Connecticut, married to a Dutchman, mother of two daughters and three sons. I love books, conversation, friendship, delicious food, gardens, long walks and beautiful places. I am easily ensnared in politics and web-browsing. I crave silence, sweetness, poetry and peace. I am always wanting to write and ever-failing to write. All my hope is in God’s power and will to save; all my trust is in His promise.
Feb. 20 at 6:03am | Comments: 0
I'm reading a book about a young woman's escape from the Jehovah's Witnesses when she was 18. Her mother had been a fanatical devotee for ten years, blighting her youth with excessive control. It's not a very good book; I don't recommend it. But it has its insights. I'm thinking about this one today: My parents had failed to follow through on the most important obligation they had as parents. They had failed to create autonomy in me by letting...
Feb. 17 at 11:46am | Comments: 0
A friend of mine shared a link to my post "Love is unconditional; relationships have terms" on Facebook, adding a question: "Should we put conditions on relationships?" This gives me an opportunity to expand and clarify my thoughts. (Thanks, friend!) The kind of terms I had in mind aren't the kind we "put"; they're the kind we receive. They come with the relationship. Some relationships involve arbitrary (in the sense of at-will) terms. If I hire someone to clean my...
Feb. 12 at 3:29am | Comments: 1 | Most recent comment: Feb. 13 at 9:12am
Following the death-by-overdoes of actor Philip Seymour Hoffman last week, a Ricochet contributor raised the question of the use of psychedelic drugs in treating heroin addiction. She thought it scandalous that more isn't being done to research and employ the method, when studies show it to have been effective in some cases. I commented that I have doubts about the approach. Among other misgivings, I worry that it can become a way of avoiding the prime thing at issue in...
Feb. 7 at 3:14am | Comments: 6 | Most recent comment: Feb. 8 at 4:49pm
Vatican II resolved a theological and philosophical dilemma that had perplexed Catholics since the Protestant Reformation and the religious wars that followed in its wake. We have always believed that our Faith is the One True Faith. We believe that error and heresy are destructive of individuals and communities; they can't be considered as on par with truth. "Error has no rights" was the way the point was usually expressed. And yet we also believe in religious liberty. How...
Jan. 28 at 5:54am | Comments: 11 | Most recent comment: Jan. 30 at 4:01am
Isn't it weird how exactly right and at the same time completely wrong Sartre was when he wrote, "Hell is other people"? He is right in as much as hell is the use and abuse that is the master/slave dynamic of the fall. When you're being used, you're in hell. When you're using others, you're in hell. The only way out is through the heaven of self-oblating, other-receiving, life-giving love. I've had very intense experiences of it this...
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