Only posts tagged with: Happiness | Display all
Jun. 7, 2012, at 11:55pm
I've never lived in the Third World, unless you count that one-year stint in Jerusalem when I was three (a subject for another day).
I have very little first-hand experience of real poverty.
I did live in and around Barcelona for ten years—not conditions of misery by a long shot. Coming from America, though, I imagined I was enduring hardship. Only a few stores had fresh milk. My American pizza pan wouldn’t fit inside my little Spanish oven. Apartments were tiny, by my standards, and so were refrigerators, washing machines and cars (not to mention people, and families). Life was lived on a small (if much more elegant) scale.
I got used to that.
But what really struck me, every …continue reading
Apr. 19, 2012, at 10:52am
One of the students in my courtship class has just brought to my attention a great primer on von Hildebrand's philosophy of love, happiness and sexuality, by his long-time student, colleague, and friend, William Marra, who died in 1998.
Dr. Marra, who taught philosophy at Fordham University for more than 40 years, had a winning warmth and down-to-earth simplicity and humor that are lamentably rare in philosophy professors.
Here are three paragraphs from the article, to give a taste. But do read the whole thing, which convey the von HIldebrandian essence in an especially lively and accessible way.
Scattered throughout von Hildebrands works are many references to the great errors that …
Mar. 30, 2010, at 1:12pm
Interesting David Brooks column in today’s New York Times that begins by pointing to the case of Sandra Bullock (who won a Best Actress Oscar days before her marriage publicly fell apart) and asking whether readers would rather have a good marriage or a great career triumph.
Nonetheless, if you had to take more than three seconds to think about this question, you are absolutely crazy. Marital happiness is far more important than anything else in determining personal well-being. If you have a successful marriage, it doesn’t matter how many professional setbacks you endure, you will be reasonably happy. If you have an unsuccessful marriage, it doesn’t matter how many career triumphs you …